Spice things up in the bedroom!
Vanilla sex may work for most couples, but if you’ve been with your partner for a longtime sometimes the sex becomes boring or even a chore. While you can always discover new positions, it may be alluring to get a little kinky and explore some BDSM. Since the explosive popularity of 50 Shades of Grey, many men and women have been intrigued by a kinkier lifestyle. But where do you start? Before you invest in whips and ball gags, check out some beginner tips that are fun, intriguing but not intimating.
Remember to respect each other’s boundaries. Consent is a major part of getting into kink. Don’t just slap a person across the face or start choking them. It could ruin the mood by scaring or angering them. Even when starting out with BDSM, agree upon a safe word in case things get too intense for one party. But also remember to have fun!
Are you ready to spice things up?