Bad sex = selfish, selfish, selfish
He’s All the Wrong Things
Selfish, lazy, oblivious or unwilling to communicate. In my experience, most often manifested in not giving a shit about whether or not I enjoy sex, yet feeling entitled themselves and getting angry if I don’t do what they need to cum. (zopilotemachine)
Me No Likey
The worst is when they’re treating your clitoris like a broken doorbell and they ask you if you like it ;) … I was with a guy that was a selfish jerk and he did this to me. He didn’t care about my pleasure at all, he just wanted me to basically recreate a porno with him and tell him everything he did was perfect. (whirlybirdy)
He Doesn’t Get to Know the Body
My nipples are not the only part of my breasts that enjoy stimulation. My clitoris is not the only part of my vagina that likes to be touched. If a person spends time exploring my body, they’re already doing it right. Bad sex is always, in my experience, due to not spending any time getting to know the other person’s body. Very rarely does that knowledge happen quickly. (Nymeria007)
Ladies, if your guy does these things, run. Guys, take notes.