Bad sex = selfish, selfish, selfish
Don’t Do ANY of These
This is what I have heard from my fellow friends when they complained about bad sex.
– No foreplay, or not enough time for foreplay
– Thinking that a woman can be aroused by only touching her butt/breasts/vagina
– being inattentive during sex or very selfish
– PIV only has one setting
– no self confidence [deleted user]
Sex is Never Over
Sometimes there just isn’t a connection, like, you can’t find a rhythm that works for both of you, or if he just randomly changes the pace/rhythm when it is clearly working for you. Not paying attention to breathing and sounds (or not making any sound himself), ignoring your partner is the biggest thing that makes it bad.
But probably the worst is just thinking sex ends when you come…I don’t care if you are male or female, if you check out the moment you have your climax, you suck. You might need to roll onto your side and catch your breath, but not making sure your partner is there with you is just a crap move. (taniapdx)
Focus on ME!
Bad sex = selfish, selfish, selfish. The focus the whole time is on his dick and nothing much else. Don’t go just ramming your finger/dick in me without some warming up. If you want to slide the slide there needs to be water and you need to know how to turn the water on! (cherrychapstick007)
I’m one of the roughly 70% of women who need clitoral stimulation to come and I was seeing a guy who would always ignore my clitoris, despite me repeatedly asking him to touch it. He had this really annoying, arrogant attitude about it, kinda like he thought that he knew how to get me off better than I did – needless to say, I never, ever got off with him, and whenever I would complain about how frustrated I was he would get really angry.
So to me, he was bad in bed. Very bad! (moonglowmermaid)
Ladies, if your guy does these things, run. Guys, take notes.